Change

"Change is good."

Most of the people are saying this. Is this really true? I don’t think so. there are so many things which a human being likes not to be changed, but still everything is not static it will change sooner or later.

Lets list out the things which a common human being would not like to change:

1.      Love what we get from our parents, brothers, sisters

2.      Love and care which you get from your girlfriend/boyfriend/life partner

3.      Friends

4.      Your personal habit

The list can vary with person to person, but i think above things everyone want not to change. Here is my question what change does to you?

What happened if we stick with the old things not allowing changes to happen? Sometimes changes bring happiness and some time it brings pain also. Is it possible that change come without any major change in life or emotionless.

Everyone thinks that changes are good but changes are good only when they bring happiness. What about the changes which brings sadness.  Those changes are not good or we will curse our destiny. That's why I am saying changes are not good always.

Let me tell you about a character from a TV series. Scheldon Cooper from The Big Bang theory. People who are watching this series will know that he does not like any changes happen to his life. His place on the couch is fixed, his meals are fixed for all days for whole weak, and his activities are planned for each day and not going to change on any circumstances. These things which he is doing in the series will leads to comedy, but if we thought in a different way it is more important to learn how our everyday life should be such that you will not face any major change.

Lets take one more example. If we consider a case in which your loved ones is leaving you forever  or you will not able to see him/her  for long time onwards then what will you call this change? Is it good?  That’s why changes are not good always.

"Continuity gives us roots; change gives us branches, letting us stretch and grow and

reach new heights.”  ~ Pauline R. Kezer

With every change in human beings life there is growth or always you will learn something from it.

"Growth is the only evidence of life". ~ John Henry Newman

Growth of a man is unable to happen if there is no growth.  Changes are really important factors in our day to day life, at the same time it is up to the individual how they will react to it and what type of change they are facing, how they tackle with it and how they grow with it.